Being a Loving Mirror is one of the most critical things you as a recovering family member can do to help yourself and your struggling loved one!
In essence, Being a Loving Mirror (BALM) is about:
- Cultivating a sense of calm strength in the midst of a crisis
- Accepting your addict as he or she is
- Allowing other people to be who they are
- Telling your loved one, without blame, emotion, or judgment, what you are seeing him/her doing and how that behavior is affecting his/her life and the people in it
- Treating them with dignity and respect regardless of their behavior
- Keeping your focus on the facts instead of on the drama
- Living peacefully and lovingly with a sober addict
- Getting your life back!
If you feel you could improve in any of these areas, the Loving Mirror Coaching Group can help!
And here is what is included:
- weekly Coach-run group sessions(usual charge $100 per session)
- The support of others going through similar circumstances
- Individual and/or group coaching on each call
- Unlimited emails through a private group list-serv for participants to ask the coach questions and share comments with each other
- Access to Coach Bev’s Private Client Site and Loving Mirror Tools for duration of coaching
- A coaching session with Bev before the group starts and at the end of the 8 session group.(usual charge $300)
To enroll now, click here for your payment options.
In the Loving Mirror Coaching Group, participants will:
- Learn and practice BALM (Be a Loving Mirror) skills
- Hold each other accountable to new, recovery-based behaviors
- Get coached or listen to other participants get coached on each call
- Benefit from the experiences and sharing of other participants
- Learn new skills designed to boost their knowledge and understanding of recovery principles
- Bring their real-life challenges to the group and practice ways to better handle situations that have stymied them in the past.
When: 6 Monday evenings from 8-9:00 PM (call to see when the next available slot is open)
Where: On the phone in the comfort of your own home or office.
Regular Fee: $900
Discounted fee: $299
Special Fee for the month of May: $249
To enroll now, click here for your payment options.
To sign up for your initial no obligation session to discuss how this group can help you, go to:
https://beverlybuncher.coachesconsole.com/v2/beverlybuncher/website/complimentary-session.html
And once your appointment is set, I will be sending you a link to the Family Recovery Coaching Insight Questionnaire to help you prepare for our coaching session! Filling it out will help you clarify your coaching goals and thus, will help me help you!
I am looking forward to supporting you to continue to be or begin to be a Loving Mirror!
Comments on: "Coaching Group – BE A Loving Mirror!" (5)
I have four years in alanon and i still need help becsuse my alcoholic is sill drinking and might die. I feel tht your words are filled with wisdom and i need help please. I need to learn the honest words on how to tell her that she is going to hurt herself and others by her actions. i myself have several years clean but am codependent of my mother. I need to take a class on being a healthy mirror and be honest without taking a job two thousand miles away because of the pain i see in my family. I am classic alanon.. oldest child both parents drinkers, one sober thirty years one almost spiritually dead. Please help me…. Jenn
Jenn,
I have not been able to reach you but would like to help. Please contact me and let’s talk.
Best,
Bev
I would like to attend or a tape sent to me please if there is a fee I can not attend or pay as of yet. Yet I do need help. LOl Blessings and have a great night. Ps I am open to other options to pay in service wok. Sincerely Sherrym
Hi Sherry,
Let’s talk. I’d like to help you find help even if you can’t attend.
Best,
Bev
your semi. are wonderful my husband has been an addict for 21 years the day my life changed is the day i decided to concentrate on my self not bother him with obnoxious phone calls or harrasing him when he came home he began to be concerened why i hadnt called I just simply said You are doing your thing and so am i after i got that thought into my head I became more sane but i do go through compulsions to call him but remeber that it will just push him more away.